One of the most important things to learn is to trust yourself. Others may be able to give you the answers, but the answers may not always be right since the information is run through their filters and beliefs or the individual may not be available when needed. You know yourself better than anyone else and have all the answers within.
How do you access the information? Meditation and contemplation can be used. Each of us also have our way of receiving answers. You can connect with your higher self, guides, or if you already have a connection, use it. As you work in higher planes, you may find a knowingness of the answers. This comes from developing your intuition.
Trusting yourself does involve discernment. To discern whether something is true or not, your intuition will assist you. This is why you need to use and trust your intuition more so it becomes part of your everyday life.
Start with small things such as when traveling a new road. Ask yourself which turn in the road are you to take to wherever it is you wish to go or which direction is in your best interest. Test the foods you eat. “Is this apple good for me? Would this be beneficial to my body today?” Keep the questions simple with yes and no answers. These are just some of the things you can do on a daily basis to begin using your intuition.
If you pay attention to your body, you can also get the answers. Some physical reactions I have experienced for verification are like gasping for breath when a message is coming through me or the hair on my right arm stands up. This happened when a ghost was keeping potential buyers out of a house for sale. It has also happened when another person said something I needed to be aware of. Another reaction may be chills when I speak something that is true and they want me to be especially aware of it and make sure others with me also are.
Practice when you do not need it so that when you do need the answers, you will feel more comfortable; eliminating anxiety or doubt. You already have all you need to succeed in this lifetime. Know that you can do it and you will.
Wishing you love in all that you do,